It's no secret that we girls objectify you guys just as much as you do us - seriously, if you guys only knew how we talk about a guy with our girlfriends (you should be so lucky) - however some of us are better at it than others, less ... perverted about our ogling shall we say.

Think of it as an art form if you have to boys, something that involves skill, technique, and deliberate restraint if you will.

Why am I talking about this? Because I have officially seen one too many of you spot a girl from a distance and, like a hawk with it's pray, stop, get into position, and wait (a little too eagerly) for her approach. And then there's the whole craning of the neck and pursed lips thing which is just plain distasteful.

This MUST stop.

Not only is it disgusting, but it's insulting. If you're going to treat like a piece of meat, at least have the decency to do it in private, because this is just plain gross. Pretend you're checking to see if you've dropped something behind you, or better yet (ingenious idea here); just use your eyes, instead of your whole body, to catch the "view".

I'm not asking you to not be a creep (Lord knows that's too much to ask), just try to be more subtle about it, please, for both our sakes, or else you might not know you've stared down the wrong girl until it's too late.

1 comment:

  1. I look at men looking at women and just laugh at them. Some of them are pretty horrible with it, but it just makes me shake my head in pity.