When you do not value what you have when you have it... I mean REALLY value it, by reflecting on it and truly appreciating it, then you lose it as a consequence. Sometimes, just the fear or potential of losing something you truly care about is enough to make you take real stock in it. Let's stop the antiquated belief that if you love something, you must let it go... If you truly love something, give it your heart and soul, and fight for it...If it's meant to be, it will remain.
You really ask yourself the same question like I do... that's comforting. Thank you.